Wendy i guess we get to talk about budgets tonight or lack of budgets if uh if that may be the case and any kind of long term financial planning or anything like that uh right let me ask you the question do you have a uh budget or a monthly budget or a long term budget that you stick to right now i'm in college and i'm on work study and so my budget comes from my dad's help um-hum uh-huh he helps me out a lot and i get paid monthly so that's kind of hard to have a budget my mother uh doesn't get paid much money so her budget is um just uh planning for IRAs i see i see well good i'm i'm kind of in a different situation but i i i went through that too when i was in school but uh i was i was working to get through college and and uh trying to make it through that but uh i'm married and have uh a couple of children and we have to uh pretty much stick to a budget i'm on a salary so i don't get any overtime or anything like that so uh-huh oh but we have a fixed income and we have to make sure that uh every dollar we have is is spent accordingly and um what we try and do to to stick to our monthly budget is we pretty much have you know the house payment we have the insurance premiums uh-huh um utilities and so forth and we do sit down at the beginning of every month or the end of every month and write down how much we know we're going to spend and set that money aside and we also try and set aside money for savings set aside money for the college the kids' education college education the future and uh um-hum set aside money for bonds and and we also set aside an emergency fund because that sounds good we've uh we've been married for about ten years and we find out that you know no matter what kind of budget you stick on there's always going to be an unexpected car repair or something happen with the house that you have to have money for and uh right it's not enough to go in to take a loan out but uh you have to have money for right and uh then we have you know whatever's left over is disposable income disposable disposable yeah discretionary income that we use for the rest of the month so and it's worked out very well it's uh it's helped us so that we haven't been you know too long on the month and too short on the money and uh try and stick with that and nice thing about it i uh my wife is well that's good is excellent in that we both work together we both have a budget and we stick to it and there's no surprises in that well good with two kids that could be hard well actually i have four kids four so yeah i said a couple of kids i i guess i should have specified i have four oh my goodness four little boys yeah four boys oh my goodness it's just me and my sister you bet you bet all right and my parents divorced three years ago and my sister had gotten through college but i was still in high school and my mother paid for a lot of my sister's college while my parents were together um-hum yes and then uh before the divorce she had saved for my college uh-huh but uh when we had the divorce she just didn't get much money out of it and had to spend it all on getting another house oh so now my dad's paying for all of my college and financial aid and scholarships i'm a music major so i have auditions coming up well good good uh-huh yes well what year are you in college i'm a sophomore you're a sophomore so you have a few more years right right i'll i'll probably have about two two and a half years left uh-huh well good for you good for you yeah i imagine it uh is a little difficult to stick with a budget during uh during school and so forth oh it sure is i i know how much my dad is going to give me every two weeks and i and i don't spend over that yes well great great and sometimes that's a little hard with books and music and and sheet music and stuff you've got to work on too oh sure there's there's always music books to buy lab fees oh yes oh yes well you're not a starving artist yet are you oh no no no i don't plan on being a starving artist that's why i'm in college good well good there there's enough of those in the world huh right good good i'm glad to hear that Wendy well that's usually because they're not real educated they can't afford to have a really good job who's who's not very well educated the starving ones there's enough out there that if you have if you're educated enough then you can make money oh yes yes that's true that's true i've found that out so that's why i'm planning and and preparing for the uh education of my children also try and set that money aside right what did you major in i majored in business administration well good you know plenty about planning a budget a budget and um yeah but uh once again