okay so i guess what kind of experience do you do you have then with child care i think um i wonder if that worked does it say something i think it usually does you might try um i don't know hold it down a little longer okay well okay i does it usually make a recording or something well i don't remember it seemed like it did but it might not i guess i guess okay we can start um okay no i don't i don't have any kids i um my sister has a she just had a baby he's about five months old and she was worrying about going back to work and what she was gonna do with him and um-hum the different do you have kids i have three oh really uh-huh yeah i do yes um i don't work though but i used to work and when i had two children um-hum i work off and on just temporarily and usually find friends to babysit but i don't envy anybody who's in that situation to find day care yeah but does your sister live in a big community um yeah she lives it's a it's a fairly large community she um got real lucky though she had a boss who um moved into a larger office um-hum and she's able to take her baby to work with her oh really and it's a small office that she works in um-hum and um it's a it's a legal firm office and it's just one lawyer and so she's the only one really that takes care of the office there's no one else that works there um um-hum and so they have an extra room and everything for the baby so it works out pretty good for her wow how lucky i i know a lot of people around here sometimes have like mothers or grandmothers that take care of their kids and but yeah the community i'm in is not a real large one so there are a lot of people who babysit in their home that you know you either know them or know somebody who knows them to get yeah so it's fairly safe to yeah to get references and that so but um i i don't don't feel comfortable about leaving my kids in a big day care center but simply because there's so many kids and so many worried that they're not going to get enough attention yeah and um you know colds and things like that get spread real easy and things but and they're expensive and yeah course there's a lot of different types of day care available too you know where they teach them academic things yes or they just watch them and let them play and things like that but take a long time to find the right place yeah and you and you don't always even know if it's it's gonna be the right place or not um-hum anything i guess could happen um-hum because after i guess after he you know gets to a certain age she's going to have to take him to a day care um-hum when he starts toddling around and stuff yeah yeah when when he's not when she can't keep control of him and he starts crawling that's um-hum it would be hard i think it would be kind of stressful it would be nice to have him around um-hum but um seems like you know golly what if he cried at the wrong time or the phone rang or you know at the wrong time but yeah i think she has problems with that too um-hum well when you have kids will you work do you work now i don't know that's something i've considered um um-hum i always kind of think it would be neat to be able to watch them and be there for them all the time um-hum is that what you do um yeah uh actually i teach my kids at home so i'm here all the time oh so they don't go to school is it like um oh what's that called it's a correspondence school they do it at home uh-huh yeah yeah that's interesting do you have to have any special training so not it depends on the state you live actually some laws absolutely prohibit it some states um say that you have to be a certified teacher in order to do that our state doesn't yet say that and i'm not a certified teacher i went to college but i um-hum you know but my kids are only elementary grades levels right now and so so they haven't been to public schools at all one of them was for a couple of years and so you know my oldest he was and then my youngest two have never been hm so anyway but we don't so you've never had